AR32:Clearing Ancestral Rage and Curses, Navigating Energy Vampires, and the Pain of Father Wounds

Naomi came to me with a general question about ancestral curses—but what we uncovered was much deeper. She had an active curse in her paternal line, rooted in an ancestor who had cursed God. So, what actually happens when someone curses God? Since we’re all part of one divine source, that curse loops right back to the one who cast it. Together, we journeyed into her lineage and cleared that dense ancestral energy.

From there, we shifted into a conversation about energetic boundaries—specifically, how to recognize and protect yourself from energy vampires, those who unknowingly (or knowingly) feed off your light. And finally, we explored the layered pain of father wounds, especially when it comes to abandonment and betrayal. This episode is a powerful reminder of how ancestral healing, energetic sovereignty, and deep emotional repair are all connected.

Transcript

00;00;00;00 - 00;00;32;09
Annette Dalloo
Also, you have to consider when you are doing these types of clearings. You are affecting thousands, if not hundreds of thousands of people, and it's mind blowing to think about it in terms of that. But it's true. When you think about how many generations ago this particular trauma happened or this particular curse happened. Now, when you think about it in terms of how much has happened between now and then, there's been a lot of clearing that has taken place throughout the generations.

00;00;32;13 - 00;00;52;26
Annette Dalloo
We are constantly clearing these things. This is what we are here to do on earth. So it's never going to be the full strength of what it was at the inception of the curse, or at the inception of the trauma.

00;00;52;28 - 00;01;16;24
Annette Dalloo
Welcome to the Akashic Recordings. My name is Annette Dalloo. I'm an Akashic Conduit channel and spiritual guidance coach. What you will be hearing today are real sessions with my clients. All names have been changed for privacy and of course, with their permission. We are privileged to hear these beautiful stories to allow us a small glimpse into the Akashic Records.

00;01;16;25 - 00;01;39;14
Annette Dalloo
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00;01;39;21 - 00;02;09;06
Annette Dalloo
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00;02;09;07 - 00;02;31;09
Annette Dalloo
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00;02;31;09 - 00;03;08;26
Annette Dalloo
Head over there now. Naomi came into the session with the desire to address potential ancestral curses. She also wanted to discuss her relationship with her parents and why they have incarnated together in this lifetime. We also discuss what it means to connect with and or be a victim of energy vampires. And finally, we address what it means when we are connecting to the energy of our parents.

00;03;09;00 - 00;03;27;09
Annette Dalloo
And there has been infidelity where the anger goes, where the emotions go, and why we feel what we do when those situations arise in our physical 3D form.

00;03;27;11 - 00;03;48;07
Annette Dalloo
So go ahead, tell me what you would like to chat about today. Last time we definitely didn't get to my mom and my dad. If there's any sort of like contract I have with them and especially my brother, people that I knew had actual family curses. I don't think I have that, but it's good to check that. Sure.

00;03;48;08 - 00;04;15;15
Annette Dalloo
And if there's any other trauma that I'm still carrying with me right now, certain muscles in my body would just be in pain and interaction. So I just wonder, like, maybe that's just if that's something I am still reacting to or something else. Okay. Yeah, we can certainly take a look at that. I asked about this best friend I had in middle school, and all of a sudden she just she just disappeared.

00;04;15;17 - 00;04;39;08
Annette Dalloo
Like, she talking to me she didn't give a reason. She just stopped. And one of my other friends in our circle said it's because I, I didn't respond to her in the way that she likes and that's why she stopped. But I kept reaching out. And maybe there's something with me that I need to resolve and let go of some, because she's responding and I still want to know why.

00;04;39;08 - 00;05;14;08
Annette Dalloo
So that and then I keep getting these nightmares with my ex-boyfriends would basically sort of tell me they want to be with me. And at the same time, I would be in so much frustrations of finding out that they're already with several other women. It just hasn't been really in my life, in my relationships, that's been projected out where that I've met men that are like that, that use me for sex and was actually like he was playing the feel the whole time.

00;05;14;10 - 00;05;34;03
Annette Dalloo
And I just wonder, like, this hasn't happened in my real to like, long term relationships, but I wonder if this is a past life thing that I can let go of, because my dreams keep telling me these fluctuations and I want to get to the bottom of it. Okay, sure. Yeah. No problem. Hey, root chakra looks really good at the moment.

00;05;34;04 - 00;05;51;04
Annette Dalloo
Okay, so then let's move that energy up to your sacral. So I'm hearing the words tied up in knots. There's a lot of stress, a lot of uncertainty. Not knowing how to show up in the world right now. You want to show up as you normally have. And the problem is, is that that's all in the past. And who you are now is different.

00;05;51;05 - 00;06;13;05
Annette Dalloo
And so you would like to show up as the new you, but you don't really know exactly who that new you is just yet. And so this is all related to your sort of creative energy and your feminine energy and not really understanding or knowing how that's being outwardly expressed. And so because it's not being openly expressed, you're actually repressing that energy.

00;06;13;05 - 00;06;36;17
Annette Dalloo
And that's what's causing this, this sort of like knotted feeling, this tight feeling of not connecting to that version of yourself. So then let's move that energy up to your solar plexus chakra. It's still going to need a little bit of time. Okay. It's in the process of healing. There's nothing we need to do today regarding your solar plexus, but they just want you to know that it's still in the process of healing.

00;06;36;21 - 00;06;58;10
Annette Dalloo
Okay, so then let's move that energy all the way up to your heart space. What's interesting is that I'm seeing multiple hearts sort of nestled in each other, like Russian dolls and the basically like each time you go into a new layer of your heart, you're like, oh, this is it. This is this is how I feel. This is what's going on.

00;06;58;12 - 00;07;15;26
Annette Dalloo
And then you unlock another layer and you're like, oh, wait, no, that wasn't all of it either. Okay, now there's more here. Okay. No, there's oh nope. There's more here too. Oh wow. Okay. There's more now. So it's like you're getting down to the very core of what your emotions are and what you feel and how you feel.

00;07;15;26 - 00;07;45;07
Annette Dalloo
Love. How you approach love, how you receive love. And all of these things are sort of being put into question at this time, because you're not certain about any of it, actually, in fact. So you're just sort of in the process of discovery. And in this discovery, you're surprising yourself over and over again, not really understanding why things are showing up the way that they are, why friendships are falling away, people are falling away, and yet it feels aligned for you.

00;07;45;07 - 00;08;06;20
Annette Dalloo
But you don't understand why, but you feel like you should be not letting those things go. And your guides want you to know that it is absolutely part of the process of letting go of old energy. And you can understand that letting go of old energy doesn't mean that you shut the door on people and close it forever, and lock it and throw away the key.

00;08;06;20 - 00;08;30;11
Annette Dalloo
It means that you walk away from situations that are not serving you at this time, and when you do that, you make room for more love in your space. You make room for more things that you do want in your space. And as those things come in, if some of those people who fell away or some of those situations that fell away come back in a new energy, then that's beautiful and that's exactly what is aligned for you.

00;08;30;14 - 00;08;46;12
Annette Dalloo
But that's not for you to worry about, because what you're needing to focus on at this time are the things that are aligned for you, not the things that are not. I'm hearing you're getting overload. You're getting a lot of messages, and you don't really know what to do with them. Since the last time we spoke, have you been connecting more to your guides?

00;08;46;12 - 00;09;12;11
Annette Dalloo
Have you been getting more messages? Yeah, I've been just getting a lot of self-realization. Instead of friends telling me that I was getting upgrades and possibly timeline jumping and merging with the higher version of myself in another dimension, yeah, certainly a lot of that has been happening. And your higher self is like, whoa, whoa, that's that's a lot of info, a lot of info coming.

00;09;12;11 - 00;09;35;00
Annette Dalloo
And you are starting to sort of sort it out. But it's okay. You don't have to worry about sorting it out right now. Just allow it to come and it will all make sense when it's meant to. Okay, same thing. Like I'm hearing your third eye say I'm processing as fast as I can and some information is sort of getting lost in the shuffle because you can't process it fast enough.

00;09;35;00 - 00;09;55;09
Annette Dalloo
But it's not that the information will ever be lost, it's just a matter of it will be waiting for you when you're ready for it. So don't worry about missing anything because it'll shake out in the end. Because of all these changes, you're having some problems sort of speaking and really articulating like what you're experiencing and what's going on.

00;09;55;11 - 00;10;16;02
Annette Dalloo
And that's normal in terms of what you're experiencing. Like not really being able to put it into words. And that's okay. Eventually you will be able to see the differences and see the changes and understand what has happened, and then you'll be able to speak to it. But for the time being, if you don't want to talk about it, if you don't want to discuss it with other people or anything like that, then that's totally fine.

00;10;16;04 - 00;10;42;08
Annette Dalloo
Just allow the changes to happen and then when you feel more settled, then you can sort of start to figure out what what is actually transpired during this time. Yeah. They're saying to me that this is sort of a message not only for you, but technically it would be for everyone that when you get these upgrades and when you get these intense, energetic downloads, they're not meant to be translated on the spot.

00;10;42;10 - 00;11;11;17
Annette Dalloo
It's almost as if they're being given to you to be prepared to use them at a later date. So as they're coming in, it feels like there's an urgency to know what it is. And in fact, there really isn't an urgency to know what there is is just the ability to allow those changes to come in. And when you feel those changes come in, make sure you're taking care of your body, your physical body.

00;11;11;19 - 00;11;32;02
Annette Dalloo
Because a lot of times, these energetic upgrades and timeline shifts and, and all of these things can be a little rough on the body. And so if you're in a place of feeling very tired or weak or things like that, make sure you're taking your vitamins, make sure you're eating good foods, make sure you're getting enough rest, exercise if you need it.

00;11;32;03 - 00;11;49;04
Annette Dalloo
That is basically your job during that period of time is to take care of the body. I want to thank Akula, my Akashic Guide for being here. Thank you. I want to thank Archangel Metatron and Archangel Santa Phon for being here as well. We are opening up the Akashic Records. Thank you. Okay, so they want to go to parents and ancestral curses.

00;11;49;04 - 00;12;06;20
Annette Dalloo
Is it on the maternal side? No paternal side. Okay. All right. We're going to go a little bit deeper into our sacred space. And I would like you to imagine that you are standing in a field of grass and flowers, and surrounding you is a circle of trees. And these trees are offering up a divine barrier of protection.

00;12;06;23 - 00;12;27;04
Annette Dalloo
And I'd like you to imagine that in front of you there's a door. And I would like you to open the door and walk inside. On the other side of the store is your sacred space where your Akashic Records are held. Space can look at anywhere you choose, and in the center of the room there's a book, and in the book are the energetic signatures of every single person, every single experience you've ever had as a soul.

00;12;27;04 - 00;12;49;22
Annette Dalloo
And what we're looking at today is her paternal family line and what curses she may have there. Okay, so there are two actually on the paternal family line and it goes back seven generations and ten generations. So there are two different timelines of curses. There are two different curses. Okay. So the first thing that I'm seeing is there is a man.

00;12;49;24 - 00;13;12;21
Annette Dalloo
So this would be one of your ancestors on your father's side going back ten generations. And I'm seeing him raise his hands to the sky, fall upon his knees, put his hands in his face and start sobbing. He is in a space of not only supplication, but he's in a space of grief and pain. I'm hearing, why have you forsaken me?

00;13;12;21 - 00;13;32;04
Annette Dalloo
And he's speaking to God. He's lost his family. He's lost his entire family. His wife, his children, all of the aunts and uncles. Everyone. There was a disaster. It was a natural disaster. It wiped out the whole village. He just happened to not be there at the time. Oh, that was left was him. So was he the one that created the curse?

00;13;32;04 - 00;13;56;29
Annette Dalloo
Yes. Okay. Got it. Okay. I've never seen this before and I don't know how that's going to play out. That's really interesting. So the curse is actually he's cursing God. I don't know how that works. I don't know, I don't know if curses with gods stick. Okay. Let's see. I'm hearing him say like I will do everything that I can in my power to thwart any of your punishments to thwart any of your actions on this planet.

00;13;56;29 - 00;14;22;05
Annette Dalloo
Like he has this grandiose idea that he can stop earthquakes and floods and volcanoes, you know, the big natural disasters. And so he's blaming God for this, and he's cursing God for it. Oh, okay. Oh, that makes sense now. Okay. So what they're showing me how a curse towards God works is it bounces right back to you. Because guess what?

00;14;22;05 - 00;14;51;09
Annette Dalloo
More. Oh God. Yep. Look in dance you back. So essentially he cursed himself unknowingly. And this anger and pain and resentment and fear, all of it just sort of got bigger and bigger and bigger. He eventually went to another village to live. There was a woman who saw him and took care of him. She was a little bit older than he was.

00;14;51;09 - 00;15;12;24
Annette Dalloo
She was, like sort of a mother figure, but not really. She had heard about the tragedy that happened, and so she took pity on him and took him sort of under her wing, let him stay at her house. She even suggested that he marry her daughter, which she did. But anything that happened with him after that was essentially numb.

00;15;12;26 - 00;15;48;19
Annette Dalloo
He was angry. He was pissed off. He was fearful. He was saddened. He was grief stricken, all of those things. And basically what he did is he just bottled that all up and built up his walls and turned that into complete and utter numbness. Now humans not feeling their emotions and not feeling their pain is not uncommon. But what this curse did for him and his ancestral line going all the way to your father, was it created a baseline of not feeling.

00;15;48;23 - 00;16;15;26
Annette Dalloo
So that is, the default state of the ancestors is basically coming into this world, not feeling their emotions, not expressing their emotions, not being in their emotional body, but the first one in the family line that's actually feeling all the emotions. You got it. Yep. That's why they said that it ended with your father. Because when you incarnated, that was.

00;16;15;26 - 00;16;36;19
Annette Dalloo
And I'm getting chills right now. So it's a confirmation and like a double confirmation when you incarnated into this family line that was part of your job was to end this self curse, if you will. And so you, as a lightworker, were uniquely qualified to be able to come in with the energy that you have to be able to break that.

00;16;36;21 - 00;17;13;23
Annette Dalloo
Is there anything else that we need to do to break that curse? No. Okay. So it's basically is done. The job that she needs to do. Correct? Okay. Is there any work that we need to do in terms of retroactively removing that curse. Yes. Okay. It will just clean up the energy. Okay. Cool. So I'm going to actually ask for your father, his higher self as well as all of his ancestors, every single ancestor going back ten generations to be with us in this beautiful sacred space where your Akashic records are held.

00;17;13;27 - 00;17;40;28
Annette Dalloo
And although this could be thousands of people, we're going to have this represented by each generation, by one person. And the healing that will be done to this one person of each generation. The healing will extend to every single member of the family. So energetically this is a representative of each person. And I would like for every single member of this generation moving back ten generations to join hands.

00;17;41;01 - 00;18;08;18
Annette Dalloo
And I'm going to ask Archangel Rafael, Archangel Michael, as well as Archangel Metatron to form a triangle encompassing this circle, creating a space of healing, a space of release for all of the grief, all of the pain, all of the anger, all of the shame. Releasing it within this triangle, allowing it to be transmuted as all of these emotions are getting released, we release the curse on God, which is in turn a curse on ourselves.

00;18;08;18 - 00;18;40;25
Annette Dalloo
It is complete, okay, and I would like to connect every single one of the hearts of each one of these souls in each generation, allowing them to be connected in the heart space, allowing the lessons that have been learned, allowing the energy that is beneficial. Releasing anything that no longer serves. And I'm going to imagine that each one of these ancestors is moving closer and closer and closer to the center of the circle until they have merged into one energy, and that energy is creating a beam of light going all the way up to the cosmos.

00;18;40;26 - 00;18;59;07
Annette Dalloo
And what is left is that being is you. Okay, so there was another curse at seven generations ago. What do we need to clear there? Has it already been cleared? I guess is my question. It has. It has been cleared with the healing that we just did. Okay. That's why you had to do the the tendon generations ago first.

00;18;59;07 - 00;19;32;02
Annette Dalloo
Yes. Okay. Do we need to know about that curse? Not necessarily. Okay. It was in fact more of the same. It was a different curse, but it was directed towards God, thereby directed towards self. Okay. Different circumstances, different curse, but same effect. Okay. All right I'm going to infuse also the energy going back all the way through the generations in your paternal family line, the notion that we can take responsibility for our own emotions, our own reactions, our feelings and emotions do not kill us.

00;19;32;08 - 00;19;54;14
Annette Dalloo
What actually creates more disease is, in fact, ignoring those emotions. So I'm giving permission to every single one of the members of your ancestral line going back to generations, giving them the permission to feel, giving them the permission to express and release their emotions. It is complete. Thank you. How are you feeling? Very good. Okay, good. All right.

00;19;54;14 - 00;20;11;19
Annette Dalloo
So let's take a look at your relationship to both your mom and your dad. So is her mother brand new to her in terms of a soul? Not necessarily brand new to her. They know each other on a soul level, but this is the first time they've incarnated in the same place at the same time. Okay. Are they soul family?

00;20;11;19 - 00;20;33;13
Annette Dalloo
They are. Okay, so that can happen sometimes. Yes. We can actually have members of our soul family who we came down to earth with, and sometimes we won't incarnate with members of our soul family until much later. So that's it. Looks like that's what's happened here. So you know your mom's soul pretty well on a soul level, but this is the first time you've incarnated together.

00;20;33;17 - 00;21;03;10
Annette Dalloo
They're saying that that's why there's this adjustment period with you in terms of energy. You're used to dealing with each other on an energetic level, not on a human level. And so dealing with each other on a human level has been challenging in a lot of ways, because it's almost as if you're not only are you trying to get to know each other in a different way, but you're trying to get to know each other in terms of your own human baggage or in human energy that you've kind of been carrying with you over the course of time.

00;21;03;10 - 00;21;28;19
Annette Dalloo
So you haven't been privy to what her experiences have been on Earth and vice versa. So it's like you're just starting to get to know what each other is all about in this, in this human life. That can be hard sometimes because you know her on a soul level. You know how she is like in her pure essence, but yet her her physical human self is not showing up in that way all the time.

00;21;28;21 - 00;21;47;12
Annette Dalloo
And so it confuses you sometimes because you're like, wait a minute, why isn't she showing up the way that I know that she can or that I know that she would? It can be a little offputting or discombobulating, like it kind of makes things feel a little off. She's more like, I realize the energy vampires. It just gets worse over time.

00;21;47;15 - 00;22;14;27
Annette Dalloo
When I was a kid, I wouldn't know, but over time I just it's like, I don't want to be near her for extended period of time. Yeah. And so what that has to do with is the fact that you are further along than she is. So even though you both kind of came here at around the same time to Earth and started incarnating at the same time, your growth pattern has been much more rapid than hers.

00;22;14;28 - 00;22;48;00
Annette Dalloo
When I say rapid, I mean we're talking, you know, probably thousands of lifetimes in the grand scheme of things. It's a while from the the trajectory of your souls. She has spent more time sort of on the other side, trying to figure things out versus you will incarnate and then just do what you need to do. The energy vampire thing is, as a result of the fact that your energy is just much bigger and much more stable than hers is, and when you're around somebody who is in those lower energies, it is almost natural.

00;22;48;00 - 00;23;07;04
Annette Dalloo
And I hate to say that in that way, but it's it is almost natural for a lower level being to want to sort of take the energy of a higher level being, if you will. Okay. So I'm going to ask if there's any advice as to what you can do to sort of move through this relationship. Do they have any soul contracts together?

00;23;07;04 - 00;23;39;10
Annette Dalloo
They do. Not anymore. Okay. So you had soul contracts together with your mom, but they are now completely gone. They're they're done. So great. So glad to hear that. So then essentially it is up to you whether or not you would like to have a relationship with her. The important thing to to mention here, though, it's one thing to decide that somebody is sort of toxic and you don't want to spend time with them, and it's another to push them away out of hurt and pain over how they've treated you.

00;23;39;12 - 00;24;16;26
Annette Dalloo
And so they want you to make sure that when you are going through this process of healing, this wound within yourself for your mom, that you acknowledge the reasons why she's in your life, you acknowledge the reasons why things happen the way that they did and understand that she is a soul going through her process just like you are, and that you can release all of the past hurts and the past anger and irritation towards her.

00;24;17;03 - 00;24;38;15
Annette Dalloo
And releasing those is going to help you to be free. So when we release those, it doesn't necessarily mean that we need to be in that person's life. It just means that we need to work on that within ourselves. Okay. Yeah, I think there's like wounds. I have to work, because she triggers me. So therefore there's something that I have to work on with my memory.

00;24;38;15 - 00;25;06;06
Annette Dalloo
So just being okay with the shells. Yeah, exactly. Is that something we want to cover right now? Yes. Can we talk about first the reason why she chose her mother in this particular lifetime? She chose her mother as this soul simply because she needed to have an experience that would allow her to understand what it means to disconnect from energies that do not serve her.

00;25;06;06 - 00;25;43;17
Annette Dalloo
It is the hardest energy to disconnect from the mother energy, and most of the time people will stay intertwined. And in her tangled in codependent relationships, romantic relationships are the first mother. Relationships would be the second hardest to disentangle from. This is a master class, if you will, for you. You are mastering the ability to acknowledge, understand and be discerning about energies that are around you and learn how to look after yourself first and your energy first, and not get wrapped up in other people's dramas or energies.

00;25;43;21 - 00;26;02;23
Annette Dalloo
This is something that you needed to practice, and it's why you chose her as a mother for this lifetime. It is a mastery that you will achieve by the end of this lifetime. To be able to let somebody go with compassion and love in your heart, but also to let them go from your life from an energetic standpoint when it is necessary.

00;26;02;24 - 00;26;20;27
Annette Dalloo
As we said before, this is not about closing doors and shutting them, locking the door and throwing away the key. This is about going with the flow of what is happening in any given moment. And if that moment calls for you retreating, pulling back your energy, clearing your energy and taking time for yourself, that's what is called for.

00;26;21;00 - 00;26;42;29
Annette Dalloo
If there is a situation that calls for you to connect with your mother, or to connect with somebody who you deem as somewhat toxic in your life, then that decision has to be made within that particular present moment. Is it necessary? Is it something you want to do? I would like you to imagine that you weren't a beautiful bubble of divine light protection, and we're going to do a little bit of timeline work surrounding your home.

00;26;42;29 - 00;27;01;20
Annette Dalloo
And I would like you to tap into your intuition. So we're not talking about a memory here. We're talking about an actual feeling, an intuition that you're having within your body. Connect with the very first age that you were when you felt that your mom was taking energy from you, and it can go all the way back to conception.

00;27;01;27 - 00;27;18;06
Annette Dalloo
I'm getting 6 in 3. All right. So let's start with three. I would like you to imagine that you're standing right in front of that three year old, and I would like you to take her in your arms. And I would like you to start by asking her how she feels. She's not sure, and she's very confused. It seems like there's nothing verbal.

00;27;18;06 - 00;27;38;21
Annette Dalloo
It's not. Can she tell you what she's confused about? Just what's going on everywhere. She doesn't know what's going on, so she doesn't know what's going on around her. Can you be her eyes for a moment? And I would like you to just sort of look around where you are with her. And what do you see or what do you hear or what do you feel healing.

00;27;38;21 - 00;27;59;17
Annette Dalloo
Like? Learning and just observing the people, the family around them, possibly my mom being scared or not knowing what to do. So your mom is scared and she doesn't know what to do? Yeah. Is so do you know who else is in the room? Probably my dad and his family. So are there a lot of people in this room?

00;27;59;19 - 00;28;19;21
Annette Dalloo
Yeah. So I would like you to take the three year old you by the hand. And I would like you to walk over to your mother. And I would like you to ask your mother what it is. She's afraid of not being accepted because she's afraid of not being accepted by her husband's family. Yeah. So the confusion that you were feeling as this three year old, was it yours?

00;28;19;23 - 00;28;48;29
Annette Dalloo
No. It's theirs. And I've observed that, so what I'm going to do is I'm going to put that little three year old version of you in a beautiful bubble of divine light protection as well. And what we're going to do is we're going to insulate that bubble with some soundproofing, and then we're going to put a layer of mirrored glass on the exterior of this bubble so that you don't absorb the energy of your mother, so you don't absorb the energy of your father, of any of your family members.

00;28;48;29 - 00;29;07;19
Annette Dalloo
You are simply able to just be and feel the emotions that you're feeling at that time. And so what I would like you to do is ask that three year old version of you now, now that she's sort of insulated, she's not feeling any of the emotions of anyone else. Those are all cleared from her energy field. I would like you to ask her again how she's feeling right now.

00;29;07;25 - 00;29;37;16
Annette Dalloo
More peace. Calmer. Happier. Okay. So can you identify? Was it your mother specifically that was trying to feed off your energy? Or were you just sort of a bystander in absorbing it? So did just absorbing as advised. Okay, so we're going to leave that little three year old you in her bubble, and we're going to travel a little bit more forward in time to the five year old version of you, and we're going to do the same little check in.

00;29;37;16 - 00;30;01;04
Annette Dalloo
I'm going to ask you to ask her how she's feeling right now. She's okay, but she's to use the why. No one's telling her story. Okay. So you're acknowledging that something is going on around you, but you don't know what it is? Is it between your parents or who is around you right now? It's between my mom and my.

00;30;01;04 - 00;30;25;02
Annette Dalloo
Or my mom's parents. Is there a reason why you needed to know what was going on and to probably feel safe? So you were feeling unsafe at that moment? Yeah. Okay. Identify the first person that you feel like is the best person to talk to about this. If it's your and to your grandparents, your mom, who's the first person that comes to your consciousness right now?

00;30;25;07 - 00;30;41;28
Annette Dalloo
Mom okay. So I'd like you to take that little five year old version of you by the hand, and I want you to walk over to your mom and just ask her what is happening and what is going on right now. She's saying that on and she doesn't know what to do. Did you know that? Did you know that your dad was gone?

00;30;42;02 - 00;31;00;29
Annette Dalloo
No. Okay, so that was the confusion? Yeah. When did you find this out? We're finding this out now. In this this moment in time when you were five, when you were feeling very confused and you're trying to ask your mom what was going on. But at the time, you didn't have the support you needed to ask those questions.

00;31;00;29 - 00;31;21;18
Annette Dalloo
So when was the first time that you found out that your father left? Oh, when I was seven. When I moved to America and he was there. Okay. So from the age of 5 to 7, what did you think happened to your dad that you just didn't know? Yeah. Okay. So I want you to ask your mom at the age of five and at the age of seven.

00;31;21;18 - 00;31;40;08
Annette Dalloo
So I want you to have both of you there. And I would like you to ask her why she couldn't tell you what was happening, why she couldn't tell you what happened to your dad. She didn't want to upset me or scare me because she was unsure. Was she scared herself. Yeah. Yeah. Do you feel like it would have been better had you known.

00;31;40;14 - 00;32;11;17
Annette Dalloo
Yeah. Yeah. So what I would like you to do is I would like to you to approach your mom in the version that you're in now. So the current version of you is approaching your mom from that period of time when you were five years old, all the way to when you were seven. And I would like you to just have a little conversation with her and let her know that it would have been really beneficial for you to know what had happened and why your dad left, and that you would have been able to handle at least a little bit of information so you wouldn't feel so scared to just have that conversation and

00;32;11;17 - 00;32;40;25
Annette Dalloo
let me know when you're done, okay? Okay. And what did she say? She said, okay. She wasn't sure if it was going to translate because I was so young. I mean, she doesn't know if I understood. So now what we're doing is we're sort of rewriting those timelines. So even though the past did happen in the way that it did, we're creating a new timeline where your five year old self can find a little bit of comfort in knowing, as opposed to having that confusion.

00;32;40;25 - 00;33;02;20
Annette Dalloo
She also has you with her right now. So even if finding out the information that she did was scary to her, she has the adult version of you here with her right now holding her hands. If we feel like picking her up and giving her a hug, letting her know that you're always here for her, okay, so even if your mom could not be that strength for you, you can be this strength for you.

00;33;02;21 - 00;33;23;13
Annette Dalloo
So anytime you have a memory, any time you have anything that pops up in your consciousness, as you were saying, like if you feel triggered by things that your mom does or anything that pops up, I would like you to write it down and maybe do a little exploration of that emotion. Feel the emotion, write it down and ask yourself when the first time was that you felt this emotion around your mom.

00;33;23;19 - 00;33;40;05
Annette Dalloo
Now of course, you and I can, you know, we can work on this any time again as well. But this is a good exercise to get into on your own is to be able to start identifying these places. Okay, so let's take a look at your father and your connection with him. Have they had past lives together? They have.

00;33;40;09 - 00;34;01;09
Annette Dalloo
Okay. They've had many past lives together. Are they soul family? They are. Okay. So all three of you are part of the same soul family then? Okay. So what was the reason why they incarnated together in this lifetime? One of the roles that her father has and has had in, in a lot of previous lifetimes with her, is to be able to give her sort of a fine tuning of challenges.

00;34;01;09 - 00;34;25;01
Annette Dalloo
He essentially becomes anything she needs him to be in order to get her through some of the stuck places that she has in her experience as a human. One of those stuck places that she has had in the past is abandonment and having incredible anger and pain over abandonment. The dreams that she spoke of in the beginning of this session were speaking to some of that abandonment.

00;34;25;07 - 00;34;44;24
Annette Dalloo
You asked if these were past lives that you were accessing. They were, in a way, the way they were presented to you in your dream state was not in the past life form. It was more in your current life circumstances or current life time, we should say. But they were echoes of past life experiences that you have had.

00;34;44;28 - 00;35;06;18
Annette Dalloo
You have had many issues with infidelity, with abandonment from male figures in your life. And this has been over the course of several lifetimes. This is something you are on the tail end of healing. It is almost complete. The one question we have for you right now, before we dive into what is happening with your father any further, how do you feel about him right now in this moment?

00;35;06;26 - 00;35;38;25
Annette Dalloo
I actually love him. I feel really good about him. I understand his role in my life and I do realize that the abandonment I'm leaving was something that feels that way, but I couldn't put the whole infidelity part together. But then I realized there was infidelity in there in a different way. So him and my mom. So I guess it's all very confusing at a moment in time, but it made sense.

00;35;38;25 - 00;36;11;24
Annette Dalloo
This is all coming from these times, and this all kind of pulls together and explaining why you're having these experiences is because you needed to believe, accept love, have compassion for and not take on the wounding of being abandoned. Because oftentimes when people go into the wounding of being abandoned, they take it personally. They feel like it is their fault that the person left their life, when in fact, 99% of the time it has nothing to do with the person.

00;36;11;27 - 00;36;33;26
Annette Dalloo
It has to do with what is going on within the other person. So you have in fact completed this soul contract with your father. You have achieved what you were here to achieve with him, which is to overcome, have compassion for, and love someone through the feeling of abandonment. Do you have any other questions about your father right now?

00;36;33;29 - 00;36;57;20
Annette Dalloo
No. Okay, so do you have any other questions about your mother and your relationship with her? No. Okay. And how are you feeling? Pretty good. Just more clarity and understanding that sort of resolves my childhood stuff. So yeah, next time you have any triggers come up or anything else, make sure to write it down. I'm feeling like a lot of this is is still just about fine tuning.

00;36;57;25 - 00;37;27;02
Annette Dalloo
It's about fine tuning your the clearing of all of these things from your childhood. And so once you get on the other side of this, you're going to be able to handle so much of your own energy and where you are in comparison to where somebody else is, and being able to adjust and operate accordingly. Whereas a lot of people, what they do is they just react as opposed to assess and adjust, if that makes sense.

00;37;27;06 - 00;37;53;01
Annette Dalloo
Yeah, yeah, okay. You have done enough of that. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. All right. So let's go on to the next topic. Let's see where the guys want to go. They're saying they want to go to the stomach pain you said you were having. Yeah yeah yeah. Can they confirm that I was absorbing somebody else's discomfort because there's so much there's a disconnect.

00;37;53;01 - 00;38;16;19
Annette Dalloo
It's on themselves to know what's good for them. So I had to be the one. So a really good way to identify if you are observing somebody else's pain. Physical pain is to do some energy clearing on a regular basis. So energy clear in the morning, at night, every day for like 3 or 4 days if the pain goes away, it was most likely not yours.

00;38;16;25 - 00;38;38;08
Annette Dalloo
Okay. They are saying to me that part of the pain is yours. Part of it is not. So you are absorbing other people's physical pain, but then also you are not processing your own pain, which is why it's kind of culminating. So there's some sort of pain that is in regards to this person that you're feeling, and then you're also absorbing theirs.

00;38;38;15 - 00;39;00;27
Annette Dalloo
Yeah. So what is the pain you're feeling towards this person? I just didn't I couldn't speak of that. I didn't want what we're doing. And I acquiesced instead of just saying no and holding up my boundary is my only way of my body telling me like, this is not the right way to go. That's my way of like, knowing.

00;39;00;29 - 00;39;26;02
Annette Dalloo
Because as soon as he's gone, like the pain, certain other pains went away. So I knew that was me. My body tell you though. And then. But I had another astrologer told me that I was absorbing everything in my life and that's not mine. So it's just hard to identify what is mine and what isn't. And exactly what you did is exactly what you can do.

00;39;26;02 - 00;39;46;19
Annette Dalloo
So like taking a step back for a few days and seeing if it if it gets better or if it returns, or what is happening. Right. Have you made the decision to step away from the situation? Yeah, I did put up stronger boundaries and that the pain went away. Okay good good good good. They're just saying make sure you process the emotions about the situation.

00;39;46;19 - 00;40;13;19
Annette Dalloo
Because even though you know, we will walk away from a situation because it is maybe not necessarily aligned for us, it doesn't necessarily mean that we'll be happy about it. Right? So sometimes it can actually make us really, really sad to have to draw those boundaries because, you know, maybe we want to do a project with somebody, or maybe we want to be with somebody who isn't aligned with us right now to actually process the emotions and feel the emotions that you're feeling is going to be very important for you right now.

00;40;13;21 - 00;40;47;17
Annette Dalloo
Have you been having feelings of suppressing your emotions recently? Oh yeah. Okay. Yeah. The whole process of just dragging on the breakup process has been really, really well. Okay. It just feels like, okay, it was complete. It is. Except that more of it just going through like the grieving process that has been a little bit difficult. It's been challenging because I would work all day and then I come back exhausted and and then I don't really want to do anything.

00;40;47;17 - 00;41;22;01
Annette Dalloo
So it's hard to you doing more journaling last night and and just working do more meditation so that I believe that that's helpful. It's very possible that you have been processing the grief of the loss of this relationship for a very long time. Absolutely. Yeah. So a lot of times when you know that a relationship isn't right for you, you end up spending a lot of time in the relationship really identifying why it's not working and what's happening.

00;41;22;01 - 00;41;38;11
Annette Dalloo
And as you as it breaks down, you end up grieving those parts of it. So it's not to say that you're not feeling it's not to say that you have to feel more. You've already felt the emotions you already gone through, all of the emotions and the rollercoaster and everything else. You just went through it before you broke up.

00;41;38;13 - 00;41;59;28
Annette Dalloo
Yeah, well, and also everybody's experience is different. So it is very possible that and they're saying it. My guides are saying to me that this is the case, that because you had processed all of the hurt and the pain of the loss of the relationship before you broke up, that's why you are where you are now. And he is just now starting to process that pain.

00;42;00;03 - 00;42;24;25
Annette Dalloo
Yeah. So it's just that it's not that you're not going through the same things, it's just you're going through them at different times. Yes. But I like to ask about my brother. I know we have karma together, but what are we here to do? I feel like I'm supposed to be the father figure for him, but if there's anything else that's important for me to know is my kinship.

00;42;25;01 - 00;42;43;29
Annette Dalloo
Do they have soul contracts together? Yes. To their past lives together? Yes. Karma together? Yes. So he needs to forgive himself for something that he did to you in a past life. That's where the karma is. Okay? Does it have to do with money or finances? Yes and no. He took from you. Yes. But it wasn't just finances he took.

00;42;44;03 - 00;43;06;11
Annette Dalloo
He took a bit of your innocence as well as your power away. I'm seeing in this past life you're actually a smaller child. He's also your brother in this previous lifetime. But he's older by quite a few years. He was very harsh with you. I'm hearing him say to you as a child, you know, stop sniveling, stop crying, stop being weak.

00;43;06;13 - 00;43;26;01
Annette Dalloo
You need to understand that the world is hard. The world is harsh. These are things that happen. You need to pay attention. Like, it's like he's shoving your face in horrible things. You see somebody dying in the street. He's like making you look at it. If he sees somebody who's missing an eye or missing an arm or a limb, he's just like, you know, you can't look away from this.

00;43;26;01 - 00;43;44;27
Annette Dalloo
You need to see it, because this is what life is like. So it was like he he stole your innocence. He stole your ability to just grow up as a as a happy kid because he just kept on trying to tell you, like, how real life is. And he felt like he was trying to prepare you for life, but in fact, he basically just scared the crap out of you.

00;43;44;28 - 00;44;08;04
Annette Dalloo
He put a lot of his own fears into you, and then basically took your own power away by doing so. So you felt very much tied to him. You felt like you were completely, like, almost handcuffed to him, like you couldn't operate without him because he was like your eyes and ears. He was your safety, when in fact, that was absolutely not true.

00;44;08;07 - 00;44;30;13
Annette Dalloo
He made you believe that as it pertains to money, he controlled all of it. So whenever you made money. So this is as you're getting older, whenever you made money. And now that I'm seeing this, you're a man in this lifetime. So your brothers, whatever money you made, it's like he just took at will. So, like, if you made money, I'm seeing you have, like, a pile of money on a table.

00;44;30;13 - 00;44;53;03
Annette Dalloo
And he would just take whatever he wanted. He wouldn't care. He wouldn't ask you for it. It was like he felt like it was his right to take any money that you had. Because whatever you made was also his, almost like, you owe me for me, basically raising you for me, basically turning you into a functional human being because Mom and Dad were never going to do that.

00;44;53;07 - 00;45;14;18
Annette Dalloo
Yeah, it's it's very controlling. There's a little bit of love there as well. Like, he did love you in this previous lifetime, but it was more geared toward the fear than it was the love. Yeah, that makes sense. The karma Plato makes us. So let me ask, is there anything that they need to do in order to further their journey together in this lifetime?

00;45;14;18 - 00;45;33;12
Annette Dalloo
Yes. Okay. Again, this is a theme that you have, which is to draw more boundaries. This is a theme in your life. Time is to be able to identify what is truly yours and what is not, and all of the feelings that he has, all of the guilt or the shame that he has, all of the karma that he has from the previous lifetime, is his to work through.

00;45;33;14 - 00;45;53;24
Annette Dalloo
You don't need to help him work through that. What you need to do is focus on you and your energy. And if he decides to come to you with penitence or asking for forgiveness, be in a place to give it to him. So that is your job to work towards that. So when he does come to you and asks for forgiveness, that you will be able to give it to him.

00;45;53;29 - 00;46;12;10
Annette Dalloo
Okay. Does that make sense then for moving forward? Yeah. Thank you. Okay. Great. All right. So we are going to close the Akashic Records. I want to thank you. Cool. On my Akashic I thank you for being here. Thank you Archangel Metatron and Archangel Sandoval for also being here. Thank you for giving us the message that she needed today.

00;46;12;18 - 00;46;30;02
Annette Dalloo
The records are closed. The records are closed. The records are closed. Thank you. Okay. How do you feel, my dear? Good. I'm so glad we talked this. You know, there's a lot written and that really touched me for the next stage. Good. I'm so glad to thank you so much. In it. You're welcome. I'll talk to you soon.

00;46;30;02 - 00;46;42;19
Annette Dalloo
Have a great weekend, YouTuber. Bye bye.

00;46;42;21 - 00;47;10;28
Annette Dalloo
I would like to thank Naomi for having the courage to allow me to record her session for the benefit of the podcast. The first big topic we are going to cover today is Ancestral Curses. There are many things that can be done in the Akashic Records. Regarding your ancestral line. We can take a look at blockages. We can take a look at reasons why.

00;47;10;28 - 00;47;38;13
Annette Dalloo
Maybe your ancestors have handed down traumas from generation to generation. There are a lot of things that can be done in order to help clear the line, which also means you're clearing the line not only for yourself and for your potential children, but then also it's retroactive. So you're clearing for your ancestral line, going back all of those generations to its origin point.

00;47;38;15 - 00;48;11;20
Annette Dalloo
Also, you have to consider when you are doing these types of clearings, you are affecting thousands, if not hundreds of thousands of people. And it's mind blowing to think about it in terms of that. But it's true. When you think about how many generations ago this particular trauma happened or this particular curse happened, now, when you think about it in terms of how much has happened between now and then, there's been a lot of clearing that has taken place throughout the generations.

00;48;11;27 - 00;48;35;23
Annette Dalloo
We are constantly clearing these things. This is what we are here to do on Earth. So it's never going to be the full strength of what it was at the inception of the curse, or at the inception of the trauma. Oftentimes, lightworkers will incarnate into a particular ancestral line for the very purpose of helping to clear that ancestral line.

00;48;35;23 - 00;49;04;03
Annette Dalloo
So the future generations don't have to experience whatever that trauma or curse was. What that often looks like is that the ancestral trauma or curse will be something that maybe your parents or your siblings or your grandparents are clearly dealing with. But let's say you do not recognize that at all. You're not dealing with it at all. It's not part of your experience.

00;49;04;03 - 00;49;38;03
Annette Dalloo
It's just part of their experience. And if you're not experiencing those things, it is very, very likely that you incarnated in order to be the stopgap of that particular trauma or curse. And sometimes it's just the natural aspects of your energy that create the healing for that particular ancestral line. In this case, with Naomi, we actually went into the a past life with one of her ancestors where her ancestor was cursing God.

00;49;38;05 - 00;50;30;07
Annette Dalloo
That was something that I had never experienced before. So it was very interesting to hear in the channel what the guides had to say about that. And it made 100% sense to me that if you are cursing God, you are essentially cursing yourself. There have been many times where I have gone through ancestral lines and found curses that were more traditional, if you will, where the ancestral line has been cursed by somebody who would want the ancestral line to be stunted or controlled in some way, those types of ancestral curses can be cleared as long as the person or people who originated the curse in their spirit form are actually able as well as willing

00;50;30;08 - 00;50;56;24
Annette Dalloo
to rescind the curse. More times than not, I am able to do that in the session. I am able to get those particular souls to rescind the curse, especially if they are not incarnated as human at this time. It does help because most of the time souls are always going to feel like they need to rescind that curse in order to unburden their own soul.

00;50;56;26 - 00;51;19;25
Annette Dalloo
There are times when I do get resistance. There are times when I have helped other souls cross over because let's say it was a soul that had created so much psychic debris for themselves, surrounding their soul, that they have not been able to cross over due to the damage that they have done. Based on the decisions that they made here on Earth.

00;51;19;28 - 00;51;47;27
Annette Dalloo
So in which case I will step into my mediumship skills and I will actually help that person or that soul cross over when I do that. Then after they cross over with the help of my angels and guides, then I can ask for that curse to be removed. There have been times when I have had resistance from whoever had cast the curse, and they would not budge.

00;51;48;04 - 00;52;10;19
Annette Dalloo
It's only happened a couple of times, but it has happened, in which case you just have to try again another time. There's really no other thing that can be done because if they are not willing to do that work to release it, then there's not a whole lot that I can do. There's not a whole lot that the angels can do because it originated with that particular soul.

00;52;10;22 - 00;52;39;02
Annette Dalloo
However, the very fact that I was connecting to that soul sort of plants the seed of healing. It plans to the seed of being able to help them to understand what they've done and what the effect it has had. So it's all done in divine timing and when it's meant to happen. The next topic I would like to cover is energy vampires.

00;52;39;04 - 00;53;13;11
Annette Dalloo
This is a really great term to discuss, and the reason why is because oftentimes people look at energy vampires as a soul or person who is actively and consciously stealing your energy. Is it always true that they are conscious of what they are doing? Absolutely not. Is it true that an energy vampire, if that's what you want to label it, is somebody who maliciously takes your energy or tries to siphon your energy?

00;53;13;13 - 00;53;41;18
Annette Dalloo
From what I've seen in the records, that's not exactly how it works. It's not a conscious decision that the soul makes in order to siphon your energy or to steal your energy, especially if they are in human form. So I'm going to break this up into two pieces. First human form, second souls that are not incarnated that could potentially siphon your energy or feed off your energy.

00;53;41;20 - 00;54;11;14
Annette Dalloo
So the people who are already incarnated and you feel that they are taking your energy, it's sort of a natural occurrence when you are in a really, really, really high energy. Let's say your energy field is huge and you are this big, beautiful, bright light and somebody you know is in your energy field. And when you're together, that person is amazing and incredible and awesome and everything is great.

00;54;11;18 - 00;54;32;16
Annette Dalloo
But the second you leave that person, you're tired. The second they leave you, they don't feel good anymore. And it's this sort of toxic cycle. The reason for that is when you have somebody who is in your energy field, who is in a much, much lower energy than you, it is inevitable that they are going to feed off your energy.

00;54;32;20 - 00;55;03;13
Annette Dalloo
It's because they like the way that it feels. It feels good to them. They're able to feel good in your energy. And so it's like a moth to a flame. They would love to just be in your energy all the time. And it's not about actively taking your energy, it is about wanting to feel better. We're always seeking to feel better, and that's an incredibly easy, quick fix kind of way to make yourself feel better.

00;55;03;19 - 00;55;35;12
Annette Dalloo
Now. Is it something that is not serving you or not serving the other person? It depends on what is happening and what the discrepancy in energy is being in your energy. Let's say if your energy is a higher energy, could actually help this person get into higher energy themselves by having them experience that higher energy, they can see what it's like to be in that energy, and then ask the universe to show them how to elevate to that energy that could spark their spiritual awakening.

00;55;35;12 - 00;56;04;25
Annette Dalloo
You don't know how that's going to work. So just because you feel that your energy is drained by another person, being in your energy field doesn't necessarily mean that they are actively trying to take your energy, and they are continuing to do so. Now you have to use your discretion if that person is continually in your energy field, continually draining you and not doing the work themselves, that's when those boundaries have to start coming up.

00;56;05;00 - 00;56;43;15
Annette Dalloo
That's when you might decide not to spend time with that person. That's when you're going to start to clear those energetic cords, clear your energy field, that type of thing. But you have to understand it's not something that they are doing intentionally necessarily. It is something that they are doing because it's almost like a drug for them. If that's the case, if they are not doing the work, if they are not trying to better themselves, if they are just coming back for more of your energy, then it's because they've gotten sort of addicted to that feeling of lightness, that feeling of beautiful divine energy that they want to have themselves, that they have not yet

00;56;43;15 - 00;57;13;04
Annette Dalloo
cultivated. Now, that being said, everybody has that divine source energy. It's not that you don't, it's just that their energy might be just covered up with so much psychic debris. They can access it and they see that you have access to it and they want more of that. So if you find yourself getting very tired and drained as you are moving through your daily life, you feel like you're being fed upon by other energies, then it is time to start putting up your bubble of protection.

00;57;13;04 - 00;57;37;02
Annette Dalloo
More often it is time to start clearing your energy more often. Okay, so you might have to do this multiple times a day if you're having issues with this type of situation. This is also why it is often the case that as we ascend, as we raise our vibration, our frequency, that the people that we use to connect with all the time have a tendency to fall away.

00;57;37;04 - 00;58;01;17
Annette Dalloo
Because once the energy discrepancy gets so large, it sometimes repels the energy and that soul or that energy has no choice but to depart your energy. So it really just depends on the energy frequency, the dynamic who the person is, how long you've had a relationship together, all sorts of things. There's a lot of factors that go into this.

00;58;01;20 - 00;58;27;03
Annette Dalloo
The one thing I would say is try to stay away from labels. I've said this before, I'm not a huge fan of labels. I use them because I'm human, and sometimes it's hard not to use labels. But I don't really like labels such as energy vampires, things like that, because it really pigeonholes somebody into a particular stereotype that may not necessarily be true.

00;58;27;03 - 00;58;56;15
Annette Dalloo
The person may not be maliciously trying to take somebody's energy, they may just be trying to get by. So have a little compassion and know that you are in your own sovereign energy, and you have the power to clear your energy and to not have those energies deplete you or take your energy. Now let's talk about souls that are not incarnated, the souls that might be earthbound, that are still here, that have not crossed over.

00;58;56;15 - 00;59;27;27
Annette Dalloo
Can they feed off your energy? Yes, they can and they do. And oftentimes I'd say this is one of the reasons why drinking drugs, any sort of substance that lowers your energy field, makes you vulnerable to these types of energies. Now, is it super detrimental to you? I mean, it can be if it's prolonged, if the energy decides to stick around for a long time, it can cause fatigue, it can cause physical ailments, things like that.

00;59;27;27 - 00;59;51;03
Annette Dalloo
But if you are able to clear your energy on a regular basis and I mean every day, if you are somebody who drinks, if you're somebody who smokes, who smokes pot, who does any substance that lowers your energy. And I promise you, all of these things do, then you are going to be susceptible to these types of energies, especially if you are out in public.

00;59;51;07 - 01;00;13;21
Annette Dalloo
Make sure you are clearing your energy before and after. If you don't partake in any of these substances, can you still be susceptible? Yes, of course, it's just a matter of if you're putting up that bubble of protection, if you're out and about in a giant crowd and there's a lot of souls and energies and things going on, you can pick up something.

01;00;13;21 - 01;00;35;09
Annette Dalloo
I remember picking up an energy when I was at a movie theater, and it was such a bizarre experience because it was just my sister and I and my nephews, and we went to see a movie, and we were literally the only ones in the movie theater and all sorts of things were going wrong with the movie. So first the movie started.

01;00;35;09 - 01;00;54;21
Annette Dalloo
There was no sound. Then the curtains in front of the screen kept on going up and down in the beginning of the movie. So like we couldn't actually see the screen. So there was clearly some, you know, supernatural something or other going on at that time. And I just kind of closed my eyes to check in to see what was going on.

01;00;54;21 - 01;01;21;14
Annette Dalloo
And I felt an entity that was sort of up into the right of where I was sitting up in the rafters of this theater. And what this entity was feeding on was the feeding, if you will, of the guests who come in to the theater. So, you know, sometimes when guests come into the theater, they get a big tub of popcorn and they're shoving that popcorn in their mouth like it's their job.

01;01;21;19 - 01;01;46;01
Annette Dalloo
And I definitely can't judge because I have absolutely been one of those people. Popcorn is one of my favorite, favorite snack foods. Was this entity feeding on that sort of gluttony, if you will, and I don't want to call it that exactly, but it's sort of, it's a euphoric feeling when you are eating something yummy. Right? It's a dopamine hit.

01;01;46;01 - 01;02;11;00
Annette Dalloo
And so that's what the energy would be feeding on. And I noticed it. But for whatever reason, I didn't really acknowledge the fact that it could have attached to me and followed me home. It just didn't come up on my radar at all. I just acknowledged it and then went along. And eventually the movie started and we were able to get the sound and we were able to get everything working, and we watched the movie.

01;02;11;02 - 01;02;37;01
Annette Dalloo
I went back to my sister's house where I was staying, and as soon as I went to sleep, I felt the presence of whatever that entity was, and I was just like, oh no, oh no, no, no, no. That's no, that's not happening tonight. So I cleared my energy. I asked the entity to essentially cross over. I asked for assistance to help that energy cross over, and that was the end of it.

01;02;37;08 - 01;03;11;28
Annette Dalloo
And I was able to help that spirit or that entity be in better, lighter energy in order to cross over. I don't recommend doing that, because it's not necessarily a fun thing to have an energy like that, follow you home or follow you back to where you're staying, wherever you happen to be. And if you don't necessarily have the practice or you don't know how to use your mediumship gifts yet, then I would recommend definitely doing the protections beforehand so you don't have to worry about that after the fact.

01;03;12;04 - 01;03;31;04
Annette Dalloo
So that just gives you an example of how a of how an entity or an energy can basically connect to your energy, or basically try to siphon your energy on a regular basis. Like if I hadn't noticed that that energy was there, I don't know how long that energy would have hung out with me. It could have been there for days, weeks, who knows.

01;03;31;09 - 01;03;58;21
Annette Dalloo
So you need to make sure that you are very vigilant about clearing your energy for that very reason. So the last thing I want to cover is a topic that is very personal to me as well. We didn't really talk about it a whole lot in this session, but it is something that was brought to my attention by my guides that it might be important to address in the session, Naomi said that she had this wonderful relationship with her father.

01;03;58;22 - 01;04;29;23
Annette Dalloo
She loved him. She was in a really good space with him, even though he was the one that abandoned her. He was also the one who cheated on her mom, and the challenges she was having were connected to her mother, who was in fact somebody who was trying to fit in with her father and her father's family. That was really uncertain about where her standing was in terms of the family, was really confused about what was happening, didn't know how to handle what was going on, and was really scared.

01;04;29;27 - 01;04;58;14
Annette Dalloo
If you looked at that from a movie perspective, let's say if you were watching a movie and that happened, what would your initial emotional reaction be? Most likely you would have compassion for the wife who felt that she didn't belong, who didn't know why things were happening, who were who is very confused, who's very hurt, and how exactly would you feel about the man who abandoned his child and was cheating on his wife?

01;04;58;19 - 01;05;21;27
Annette Dalloo
So if you were watching a movie, you could say that. Okay, yeah, I can see that from the perspective of the husband, that maybe it was a more complex situation than that, but overall, he was the one that did something wrong. And the wife was the victim of that wrongdoing. It's never black and white like that, by the way, and this is something that I have learned over the course of my lifetime.

01;05;21;27 - 01;05;44;09
Annette Dalloo
Cheating on a significant other, a wife, a husband, spouse is never cut and dry. I had to learn this the hard way because my father cheated on my mother. He admitted it to me when I was in my 30s that he had, but prior to that, I had only heard the stories from my mother and from some of my other relatives.

01;05;44;09 - 01;06;10;21
Annette Dalloo
My dad hadn't actually told me specifically what had happened. From his perspective, the challenge with dealing with infidelity, wrongdoing, if you want to call it that, betrayal when it comes to your parents, we as the child really don't know how to compartmentalize that. Deal with it emotionally. Where to put that in our energy? Like we have no idea how to deal with that.

01;06;10;21 - 01;06;40;29
Annette Dalloo
And so it comes out in really bizarre ways sometimes. So, for example, I would get really angry at my mom, and for some reason, my dad was the one who was the shining one. I loved him, I wanted to always spend time with him. And yet if you looked at that story, that wouldn't make sense. Why would the child want to spend her time or his time with the parent that did the betrayal?

01;06;40;29 - 01;07;06;08
Annette Dalloo
There are so many different ways to look at this. First, it has to do with rejection, because the child can often feel the rejection of the parent that was cheated on. And so because of the feeling of that rejection, will then go to the parent who did the cheating and tried to get that approval from them, because it is a feeling of not being good enough.

01;07;06;08 - 01;07;37;23
Annette Dalloo
It's a feeling of not being worthy enough to be chosen as a person. And if you're a parent, whichever parent it was that that was the person who was not cheating, you would feel that energy coming from that parent. The desire to be chosen, the desire to be well desired. These types of situations come out in so many different ways that we end up having resentment for a person that we may not need to resent because of it.

01;07;37;27 - 01;08;02;24
Annette Dalloo
That's something that needs to be healed. That our anger or our frustration or need for validation is misplaced and put on somebody who may actually already think that you're worthy. And that was certainly the case with my father. Eventually, as I got older, I realized that my need for his approval had nothing to do with me. He already loved me.

01;08;02;24 - 01;08;31;03
Annette Dalloo
He already approved of me. He already thought that I was the greatest thing since sliced bread. But I could not believe it because he rejected my mother. And that's how I looked at it. Now. I didn't look at that consciously. I looked at that from the perspective of where I was. It's also an abandonment thing as well, because when parents get divorced and mine divorced when I was two, you can look at that as sort of a form of abandonment.

01;08;31;03 - 01;09;03;08
Annette Dalloo
Even though my father was very, very present, I saw him every single weekend and often times on the weekend and on Wednesdays. And so it's not that he had disappeared. He was always there. It's just that the parental unit is no longer connected. I have never experienced that. I was too young to experience what it was like to see or experience a married couple as my parents, so all I had to go on was the knowledge that I had the feelings or emotions I had.

01;09;03;08 - 01;09;28;26
Annette Dalloo
And not understanding those feelings and emotions is why you end up compartmentalizing. It's why you end up misdirecting your anger. Frustration hurt all of those emotions. So you might be directing those emotions at your mom at first. And then once you start getting into your dating life, maybe you start redirecting those emotions towards your significant other or towards your friends.

01;09;28;28 - 01;09;51;15
Annette Dalloo
And until you start to really deal with what had happened in your childhood, similar to what we did with Naomi, with the timeline work, can you then start to have compassion for your parents and what they went through? You can start to have compassion for the decisions or mistakes that they made and understand that they may have absolutely nothing to do with you.

01;09;51;17 - 01;10;34;05
Annette Dalloo
They have to do with their own insecurities, their own lack of self-worth, their own parents that maybe they didn't heal from that situation. So a lot of this timeline work that I do with my clients is very, very powerful. To get perspective on where your parents were energetically, what they were feeling, how your small child, your inner child, as well as your actual physical small child version of you felt at that time and it helps you to take the emotions that you have and place them in the right space, understanding where those emotions are coming from and why are they coming from you?

01;10;34;05 - 01;11;00;22
Annette Dalloo
Are they coming from somebody else? And in this case, with Naomi, some of those emotions were her mother's that she did not need to take on. They were not hers and she didn't need to take those on. And sometimes when we vilify one parent and glorify another, regardless of what their actions have been, it can also have a lot to do with the amount of lower energy that that parent has put on you.

01;11;00;29 - 01;11;23;25
Annette Dalloo
So, for example, with my father, even though he was the person that you would say, quote unquote did the wrongdoing in the marriage, I have now come to understand that it is a two way street, that there was wrongdoing on both sides, and my father didn't put his sadness, anger, frustration, all of those emotions regarding the divorce. He did not put that on us.

01;11;23;25 - 01;11;49;26
Annette Dalloo
But guess what my mom did and the reason why she did is because we were living with her, my sister and I. We were living with her most of the time, and so we were with her throughout all of those emotional times. And when you're a parent, you can't just, you know, throw your kids away and, you know, go off for a week and deal with your emotions like you have to raise your children in spite of how you're feeling.

01;11;49;26 - 01;12;14;02
Annette Dalloo
And so she did the best thing that she could possibly do. She she handled it in the way that she could with the tools that she had at the time, which weren't a lot, quite frankly. So the anger that I felt towards her was not necessarily because of the infidelity, it was because of the feelings that she was putting upon me in the aftermath of what happened.

01;12;14;06 - 01;12;35;15
Annette Dalloo
And me being the empath and not knowing that that's what I was doing, is absorbing her energy. That put me in a state of anger and not wanting to be in that energy and pushing against that energy and wanting to push her away, which is what I did for a lot of my childhood. So you can see how a lot of these things can unravel.

01;12;35;15 - 01;12;59;24
Annette Dalloo
It's never just one thing this person did a therefore this person reacted in B way and therefore this is why I'm angry or this is why I'm sad. It's not like that with life. It's so much more complicated. It's so much more nuanced than that. And getting to the bottom of each one of these situations is really important for your own healing.

01;12;59;26 - 01;13;17;19
Annette Dalloo
So I would recommend that sort of timeline work for pretty much everyone who is listening and everyone in general, because it's really important to get to the bottom of why you're feeling what you're feeling as it pertains to your past and your childhood. And a lot of people say, well, looking at the past just brings it up again.

01;13;17;19 - 01;13;42;21
Annette Dalloo
Well, sure. But if those energies are still lodged in your energy field, they're still active. It's like a computer program running in the background of your energy field. So it's still there and it's still running, and it's still having an effect on everything that you do, whether you're conscious of it or not. So going into your intuition and tapping into these energies can be incredibly, incredibly beneficial.

01;13;42;23 - 01;14;03;23
Annette Dalloo
It is what helped me get through some of these confusing energies that I had with my parents, and start to have compassion and real connectedness with my parents and love with them. Whether your parents are still incarnated on this planet or not, this work can still be done. I hope this gives you a little bit of information to chew on for the time being.

01;14;03;23 - 01;14;28;19
Annette Dalloo
And if you would like to book a session with me and start diving into this timeline work, I'd be happy to work with you. As per usual, you can just book a session on my website at Infinite Soul love.com. And if you want to start to develop those mediumship gifts, if you want to develop those intuitive gifts, feel free to head to my website as well and sign up for the waitlist for Soul Discovery Workshop.

01;14;28;24 - 01;14;55;03
Annette Dalloo
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01;14;55;03 - 01;15;12;21
Annette Dalloo
For every single new episode of the Akashic Recordings. If you feel called to book a session with me, you can always reach me at infinite. So love.com and you can book directly on my website. Thank you so much for all of your support and I can't wait to connect with you next week.